"Ordinary concerns, such as work or friends, have no place here. Futility muffles thought; time elongates cruelly. Who is to blame for this situation? Those with depression think it must be them. Pointlessness and self-loathing govern them. So the natural final step is suicide. People with depression don’t kill themselves to frighten an errant boyfriend. They kill themselves because it is the obvious and right thing to do at that point. It is the only positive step they can think of."

-- Kay McKallan Ipswich general practitioner and consumer with depression, writing in the British Medical Journal

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Are you sad?

Do you think you're sad or depressed? Some may think those two words are the same...but they aren't. Everyone gets sad. Yes, everyone you've ever met. Some people have sad feelings just once in a while, and others may have sad feelings pretty often. More than half of teenagers go through a sad period at least once a month and plenty of younger kids do, too.

When you’re in a sad mood, it may feel like it will last forever, but usually feelings of sadness do not last very long. A deeper, more intense kind of sadness that lasts a lot longer is called depression. Sadness is a feeling, it is one of the many normal human emotions, or moods, we all have. Sadness is a feeling; it is one of the many human emotions or moods everyone has. Sadness is the emotion people feel when they’ve lost something important, or when they’ve been disappointed about something, or when something sad has happened to them or to someone else.

When you’re sad, the world may seem dark and unfriendly. You might feel like you have nothing to look forward to. The hurt deep inside may crush your usually good mood. Sadness makes you feel like crying, and sometimes the tears are hard to stop. Crying often makes you feel better.

Sometimes when your mood is sad, you just feel like being alone for a while, or you might want someone to comfort you or just keep you company while you go through the feelings you are experiencing. Talking about what has made you sad usually helps the sad feeling melt away.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

This is a really good piece seprating depression from saddness. I know of too many people who self diagnose depression in themselves when in greif or when sad. Its not the same, thankyou for making that division. Hannah X